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  • Gatekeeping isn’t inherently misogynistic or conformist, but the motivations in cases like this probably are.

    I also don’t think it’s unreasonable to ask people not to publicly associate themselves with a thing if they know nothing at all about that thing.

    Nobody owes anyone an explanation of how entitled they are to wear a band’s t-shirt.

    I’ve listened to enough iron maiden to know that I like the band, but could only name one song off the top of my head. Do I have your permission to wear their t-shirt?

    You’re channeling the same energy as someone that feels entitled to know about a stranger’s genitals if their bone structure seems misaligned with the gender they’re presenting.

    It’s so easy to not be an asshole watch this:

    Slayer fan:

    Iron maiden! Nice! I saw them play at XXXX back in XXXX. It was a wicked show.

    Iron maiden fan:

    Oh wow, that sounds so fun! I’ve just learned about them, but I’d love to see them in concert someday. The metal community is so welcoming!

    Or:

    Oh wow. I don’t really listen to them, but they were my cousin’s favorite band, she died recently, so I wear this shirt when I’m missing her.

    Or:

    Oh wow, I was at that show too!

    Or:

    my uncle is the drummer and is always giving me these

    Or:

    Uh huh? I just like the colours of the shirt.

    Life is so much better if you don’t make nasty assumptions.



  • She doesn’t owe him anything.

    It’s basically accusing her of cultural appropriation, just for wearing a t-shirt she likes.

    The question implies skepticism that she is an authentic fan. It’s a form of gatekeeping, based in misogyny and rigid social conformity.

    Even if she doesn’t really know iron maiden’s music, so what? It’s perfectly reasonable to choose your shirts based on styles and colours you like. I wore a Popeye the sailor t-shirt yesterday, I would not be prepared to talk about my favorite episodes.



  • I have a buddy with adhd and he’s also a musician.

    He forgot he had to make a music video.

    Not like he really ought to make one to market himself. He is contractually obligated to make a music video and he forgot… well he forgot until it was just barely possible if everything went smoothly and he ran himself ragged.


  • I understand your anger and agree that anti-vaxxers are stupid. I believe public health education should be part of the school system.

    I also agree that it’s responsible for a society to impose reasonable restrictions on members that endanger it.

    I think people do have an ethical obligation to take reasonable precautions avoid potentially exposing others to pathogens. Vaccination is an example of reasonable precaution. People have the right to bodily autonomy, do not vaccinate them against their wishes.

    I do not support the firing of workers for refusing vaccinations if they can do their job remotely. People shouldn’t have to decide between their religious beliefs and employment if their employment doesn’t bring them into contact with others. (Imo anti-vaxx is essentially a religion, this may say more about my beliefs regarding religion than about anti-vaxx sentiment).

    By all means exclude the unvaccinated from places where they can be reasonably understood to endanger the public, or others that have a similar right to be there.








  • they aren’t just going to out themselves as pedophiles

    Of course not, that’s why I asked if you had evidence.

    The US hosts more CSAM than any other country in the world

    I think it might be more accurate to say that the US has detected more CSAM within its borders than any other nation.

    Also, I reckon that the US also has more web hosting generally than any other country in the world (36% of global webhosting).

    I think what you’re perceiving as reluctance to prosecute Jared Fogle is actually reluctance to bungle a prosecution by being hasty. Just like many people are frustrated with how long it has taken for Donald Trump to see any consequences, it takes time to assemble evidence to form an airtight case.

    I think the fact that Epstein was able to kill himself while in jail is much more compelling evidence that there is at least one very powerful pedophile. But how can we figure out who it is? Do you have any specific evidence that would help with that?






  • a culture that’s progressed through time

    But all cultures are equally progressed through time because as all humans share a common ancestor, so too all cultures must share a common ancestor.

    I think what you’re saying is that more egalitarian societies are more progressed through time. As though time inevitably leads to egalitarianism. It doesn’t.

    Would a technologically superior alien consider modern Canadian society to be more advanced than a more caste based, misogynistic patriarchy (like the roman empire)?

    Maybe they would look at how we treated women and the poor/the enslaved and say we are culturally advanced compared to the Romans.

    Maybe they would look at the number of animals that we kill for the pleasure of it (spectacle, and the taste of flesh) how do you think they would judge us vs the Romans? (The meat industry is about pleasure, not sustenance)

    Maybe they would look at the way we leave the earth for future generations how do you think they would judge us vs the Romans?

    Maybe they would be scandalized that we are willing to eat other life’s DNA, can’t humans see that it’s cannibalism?